{"id":21174,"date":"2022-02-22T09:18:16","date_gmt":"2022-02-22T14:18:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/?p=21174"},"modified":"2022-06-27T16:07:52","modified_gmt":"2022-06-27T20:07:52","slug":"avoid-the-tinder-swindler-how-to-date-online-safely","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/avoid-the-tinder-swindler-how-to-date-online-safely\/","title":{"rendered":"Avoid the Tinder Swindler: how to date online safely"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Good con artists have a strange relationship with emotion: many of them demonstrate an almost uncanny ability to manipulate and elicit emotions in others, yet they\u2019re often detached from their own emotions. This frightening combination is in evidence throughout the recent independent film sensation <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Tinder Swindler.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The film tells the story of a conman who uses the<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/learn-find-tinder\/\"> Tinder app<\/a> to insinuate himself into the lives of three female victims. In the film, Simon Leviev sets up elaborate romantic cons to appear as a wealthy diamond heir, then uses the trust he has gained to steal information, then money \u2013 only to use that money to fund the con for his next victim. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s a taut and dramatically told story, but without a clear moral or ending. (<a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2022\/02\/16\/tinder-swindler-simon-leviev-signs-with-hollywood-agent\/\">The New York Post has reported<\/a> that Leviev has signed with a Hollywood agent, and \u201cwants his own dating show.\u201d)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How To Stay Safe: Five Scammer Prevention Keys<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But the moral for users of Tinder \u2014 and social media in general \u2014 are still the same: proceed with caution!&nbsp; Below are a Five Keys to help you stay safe as you navigate dating apps like Tinder \u2014 they\u2019re also useful guidelines for people you might meet on any other social app like Facebook:<\/span><b><\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Do some research \u2014 and take your time.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Before meeting in real life with <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/how-careful-should-i-be-with-online-dating\/\">anyone you\u2019ve met online<\/a>, take the time to do a little background research and find out if the person you\u2019re speaking to is who they say they are.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Consider bringing a friend for the first date(s), and meet in public. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yes, this will keep you safer, and it might also help provide a more casual atmosphere where you can learn a little bit more about your <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">new<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> friend.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Be sensitive about peculiar information requests. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Spoiler alert: The Tinder Swindler orchestrated reasons to get Passport information, and then quickly put it to nefarious use. Whatever the reason given, a quick pivot to requests for detailed personal data is always a sure warning sign, especially in a new relationship.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Keep your purse, phone, and ID\u2019s close. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t overlook simple physical sources of data like these. Don\u2019t leave them unattended.&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li aria-level=\"1\"><b>If you have any suspicions, check in to things. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If anything seems odd in terms of your interactions, don\u2019t bury your head in the sand. A good security solution like <a href=\"https:\/\/go.onelink.me\/U4Bc?pid=MKT_BLOG_US&amp;c=avoid-the-tinder-swindler-how-to-date-online-safely\">dfndr security<\/a> can help you track where your data is going and also protect your physical phone from theft. Stay on top of your bank and credit card accounts.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Remember: Most Scammers Don\u2019t Do A Lot of Romancing<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The Tinder Swindler is also a healthy reminder that most scams are not quite as elaborate as those cooked up by Simon Leviev.&nbsp; But most scams operate on the same human emotions of romance and self-interest.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Set some clear rules for yourself in the dating world \u2013 and also for when you\u2019re answering emails and text messages \u2014 or when you\u2019re looking for work on a job site.&nbsp; If it looks too good to be true \u2013 it probably is!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tinder Swindler: A Scammer By Any Name How To Protect Yourself on Tinder and Online<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":79,"featured_media":21176,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_crdt_document":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6,194],"tags":[30,18,890,218,545,249,67,421,261],"class_list":["post-21174","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-privacy","category-tips-tutoriais","tag-android","tag-app","tag-ios","tag-privacy","tag-safety","tag-security","tag-smartphone","tag-social-media","tag-tinder"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21174","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/79"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21174"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21174\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21289,"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21174\/revisions\/21289"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21176"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21174"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21174"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.psafe.com\/en\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21174"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}